Category: Opinion

If the prospect of re-entering the dating scene in your 40s feels slightly daunting, you are far from alone. The digital landscape has shifted drastically over the last decade. Priorities have changed; the frantic rush toward marriage often gives way to a desire for genuine connection, intellectual compatibility, and a…

There is a specific genre of heartbreak I see constantly in my inbox. It starts with a woman meeting a man who is “recently” divorced. He is charming, he is vulnerable, and he swears up and down that he is fully over his ex-wife. The first month is electric. He…

You’re a decent guy. You have a steady job. You’re nice to service workers. You shower daily. So why hasn’t anyone asked you out in three years? You are probably telling yourself it’s just bad luck or the “modern dating landscape.” But deep down, you suspect the truth. You are…

There is a recent internet confessional haunting the nightmares of romantics everywhere. A man took to Reddit to admit he wasn’t attracted to his wife and never had been. He rated himself a “two” on the attraction scale, admitted he could only pull women in the “two to four” range,…

We need to talk about the way the date ends. Not the part where you fight over the check or the awkward hug by the subway. I’m talking about the moment the vibe shifts because you asked the question. You know the one. You asked for his birth time. Up…

You’re the retirement plan for a failed marriage. That’s the harsh reality staring down the barrel of dating over 40. You meet a woman who checks the boxes — smart, attractive, has her life together — but then comes the “package deal” conversation. It’s framed as an audition for your…

There is a specific kind of exhaustion that comes from trying to be the “Cool Girl” or the “Nice Guy.” You know the drill. You strip away the edges of your personality. You smooth out your weird laugh. You suppress your obsession with medieval history or your tendency to snort…

We all know the Hollywood signs of a cheating partner. Lipstick on the collar. Working late. A sudden password on the phone. But in the real world, betrayal is rarely that cinematic. It is usually much quieter and significantly weirder. Real-life cheaters are sloppy in ways that don’t make it…

There is a specific kind of ghost that haunts modern relationships. She isn’t dead, and she isn’t an ex—at least, not technically. She is the “female friend” your boyfriend texts at 11 p.m. She is the one he grabs lunch with on Tuesdays while you’re at work. She is the…

Most first dates don’t fail because someone said the wrong thing. They fail because one person never stopped talking long enough to notice there was another human sitting across from them. And then they text later, shocked: “I had such a great time. You’re so easy to talk to.” Yeah….